There was a time when I felt like I had to hide my breast reduction scars because they were “imperfections” that made me less beautiful, less valuable. This was around the same time that I was relentlessly trying to “fix” them and eliminate them and through it, fix myself.

Today I posted a reel showing a cute top that in the past I wouldn't have worn because it shows my breast reduction scars. 

A top like this ~ with some deep side-bewb action would have been off-limits. Would have made me self-conscious. That top would have been for other people, not me.

And then one day I got selfish. Why don't I get to enjoy my body? Why is mine any less beautiful? Why am I less beautiful?

In fact - through this healing I realized that WE GET TO DEFINE WHAT IS BEAUTIFUL. For real.

When you choose what is beautiful for you, everyone around you shifts their perception of you.

When I started the practice of breathing light into “flaws” taking deep ownership of myself, my choices, my history, and started to see myself through eyes of compassion and reverence everything changed. I saw myself differently and everyone else did too. Even my body changed, they felt my acceptance, our integration.

Because people are following your lead with how you see yourself when it comes to how they should see you. How you're perceived and received.

This is the energetic projection of beauty.

I’m sharing this because it makes me so sad when I see women holding themselves back for one reason or another. We think that when we lose the weight, fix xyz, change this, improve that, then we will be happy. Then we will be loveable enough, good enough, bold enough to express ourselves the way we came here to.

But the truth is you’re delaying happiness by letting “imperfections” run your life, letting them take up brain space, reduce your currency and rob you of being fully present and enjoying your incredible bodies and lives.

If you’re feeling this ~ I created 21 DAYS TO HIGH VIBE BEAUTY to help you STOP fixating on "flaws" and start fully and unapologetically enjoying your body.

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