There comes a point when your old identity and ways of being just aren't going to fit anymore.
And it might get really uncomfortable because you're in the space between the old and the new. The outdated, and the becoming.
You may be entirely fed up with the constant cycle of deep self-care followed by ancient self-sabotaging behaviors.
You may feel like you don't relate to the friends you used to identify deeply with, and now you don't know how you fit into your relationships. Or how they fit into the life of the woman you're becoming.
You may try to hang on to the old ways of working, expressing yourself, eating, moving your body, procrastinating, and bumping through your life.
And your soul may start to nag you because it all feels dissatisfying and under-nourishing.
You may get windows of feeling amazing and so fully connected to yourself, your appearance, your body, your soul, your mission... and then you'll slip into an old way of being, and it's going to feel so disappointing and frustrating.
Good.
Because you're ready for an evolutionary uplevel, and some things just have to go.
And this is where your access to greater intuition, connection, beauty, vitality, and sheerly delicious unique self-expression lives.
At some point, you're going to see it clear as day.
"I'm done with this pattern of dropping my power and giving in to limiting fears."
"I'm done eating this way and ignoring uncomfortable feelings by stuffing them down with food and promising I'll be better again tomorrow for the 1000th time."
"I'm done looking in the mirror and feeling like I'm not enough or as I should be, or like something is wrong with me because I've made decisions and LIVED in this body."
"I'm done feeling disconnected from myself for any reason."
And here's something I've been experiencing myself.
You can feel the old thoughts, the old fears, the old emotional responses, and still decide that you're not dropping your power anymore.
You can recognize what's happening without following yourself all the way back into an old pattern.
Sometimes that's what real change looks like.
A moment when you stop, return to your body, and remember that you get to choose how you're going to show up for yourself.
And that takes practice. It takes devotion. It takes a willingness to be with yourself through the uncomfortable, tender, in-between places.
The old familiar ways may still feel "safe," but they no longer feel "right."
And there's something incredibly powerful about reaching the point where you can feel that difference.
You don't have to wait until you're completely on the other side to start living differently.
You can begin shaping what comes next, right now. Through the choices you make, the way you care for your body, the way you respond to your fears, the way you express yourself, and what you're willing to allow into your life.
And you certainly don't have to do all of this on your own.
Consciously Shaping the Woman You're Becoming
This is the kind of work I love doing with women.
Through beauty, restorative face and body care, intuitive guidance, healing, and the relationship we build together, I help women consciously shape and embody the woman they're becoming.
EVOLUTION is my most intimate way of working together.
Three months of private mentorship where we can really get into it. Your body, your beauty, your patterns, your desires, your relationships, your life.
We work with what's actually happening for you, physically, emotionally, and energetically.
How you care for yourself. How you feel when you look in the mirror. The choices you make when old fears come up. The patterns you keep finding yourself in. The parts of yourself you're ready to explore, express, and bring forward.
And because we're working together over time, we get to meet these things as they actually arise in your life, with ongoing support, insight, and practices that help you embody the changes you're making.
Because sometimes you need someone who can see what you can't yet see, recognize the patterns keeping you in old ways of being, and help you consciously shape what comes next.
Someone who gets to know you deeply, who can reflect your power back to you when you've lost sight of it, and support you in creating a life that feels increasingly beautiful, satisfying, and YOURS.
If you can feel that something in your life is ready to change, and you're ready to take an active role in shaping what comes next, I'd love to work with you.
And if you're craving another place to begin, explore the other ways we can work together.
Beautiful woman, you're allowed to outgrow the ways you've been relating to yourself.
In fact, it's a really, really good thing.
And you deserve to have support as you do it.
