External validation was my love language…
God I wish I was kidding, but I struggled for SO long…
it was so deep I wasn't even aware I was doing it. I used to feel crushed if I didn’t get the compliments and approval I needed to feel like I was good enough.
To have my existence justified...
Seeking external validation is a sneaky illness, because a lot of what we do in the name of beauty is actually a result of conditioning and programming and seeking validation...
I’m not trying to be hard on you, trust me I’m right here with you... and I’m telling you this is mostly subconscious AND it's perfectly natural, normal and even primal to desire acceptance and approval because in our lizard brain, approval and love equates to safety.
But what actually happens when you seek external validation?
You actually give our power away. You lower your vibration and become a shell of the version of yourself that you’re meant to be.
That big, bold, beautiful, fully realized version of you. The one who is completely un-f*ck-with-able.
And you will never, ever be satisfied with your appearance of achievements.
When you allow others' thoughts and opinions and their own energetic baggage to influence how you feel about yourself, even a little… you buy a one-way ticket to never, ever, ever being fully satisfied, fulfilled, joyful and content in your skin.
Do you realize how detrimental this is?
This is not about being a bulldozer and blindly bumping about life without considering other people’s thoughts.
This is about acknowledging your beauty, strength, uniqueness, and irreplaceable divine light.
This is about being SO firmly rooted in yourself that no one else's opinions actually change how YOU fundamentally see yourself. This is how the ENERGETIC PROJECTION of that deep beauty reservoir really kicks into action.
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